Energy Vampires
I found this article fascinating. Dr. Bruce Goldberg explains very well how energy vampires draw their victims in and drain their energy. Keep in mind that there are other views about what energy vampires are, and I don't agree with all of his conclusions. Some of his insights are very interesting and seem quite likely, especially in respect to these particular kinds of people. Rather than state here which parts I agree with, I'll simply share the article and let you decide for yourself what has merit within it.
Energy Vampires
Dr. Bruce Goldberg writes:
Some people, by their very presence, seem to drain the energy of those unprotected people around them. They will often associate with a victim who exhibits the classic signs of this drain.
General debility, lack of motivation and energy, an emaciated physique, a pallid complexion, and an overall sense of weakness are typically noted. These victims also tended to be highly suggestible people. The dominant partner (energy vampire) always resists a successful treatment, or protection, applied to their victim.
Most of these energy vampires are well-meaning, normal people. They are an unhappy lot, and do their damage by a telepathic draining of their victim's energy resources. Mere separation of two people results in immediate positive changes in the victim. In my Los Angeles office I train all such victims in the art of spiritual protection techniques to eliminate any recurrences of this syndrome. Try the psychic protection negativity experience on the hypnotic exercise link for your own protection.
I prefer to use the term "psychic parasitism" for cases where this energy drain is involuntary and subconscious. If this effect is the result of a premeditated psychic attack, I refer to the perpetrator as an energy vampire.
You will observe this process at work in any public gathering,. The more people present, the easier it will be to observe. This could be a family gathering, a lecture, or an encounter at your local movie theater. When I conduct seminars and workshops, it is more than obvious. I discuss this concept and immediately see certain heads bobbing up and down. Even more interesting is the response of their partner. These individuals give more me some of the nastiest looks I have ever seen. Fear not, I am fully protected and am not susceptible to their parasitism/vampirism.
Psychic Defense Strategies Against Energy Vampires
The psychological dynamics represented by people who inadvertently portray a psychic attacker (energy vampire) fall into five major categories. This personality type is an accumulation of that individual's experiences in their current life, as well as in prior lifetimes.
Fear is the common denominator in these individuals, and you must learn to protect yourself from their negative influences. The five personality types are called ethereal, insecure, paranoid, passive-aggressive, and robotic.
The Paranoid Type
Betrayal is the main issue with a paranoid type. Their karmic theme in past lives has possibly been that of warrior-like behavior, self-sacrifice, and victory in their battles. As a results of their experiences, they learned that there were enemies in the world who betrayed and possibly killed them in several incarnations.
Paranoid types are soldiers still trying to win a war that no longer exists against an enemy that has long since perished. They do not trust anyone. Everyone is their enemy and life is their battleground. Fear is everywhere and an ingrained part of their personality makeup.
Their energy fields tend to be more highly charged on the upper half of their body. They are especially fearful and distrustful of members of the opposite sex. Aggression is the most common response to the world from a paranoid type. This aggression takes the form of physical behavior and energy projections to anyone in their path.
Paranoid types constantly pick fights. They are seductive, but are incapable of long-term relationships. This person expects all others to betray them, and will assist in setting up others for this betrayal. A paranoid may initiate a betrayal as a preemptory strike.
To lose for a paranoid is to admit that they are bad. This is intolerable, so these people must win at any cost. They are hard workers, obsessive-compulsive, and are usually quite healthy physically. There is never enough time for them to accomplish their various goals.
Paranoid types insist you agree with their often-distorted view of the world. In reality, they want you to argue with them. This way they can win the argument and prove to themselves that they are good and you are bad.
Never argue with this person. Refrain from making eye contact with them. Lower and soften your voice when you speak to them, and change the topic to something pleasant.
The Ethereal Type
Existential terror is the predominant issue of an ethereal type. Most often these troubled souls have been tortured to death in previous lives for their metaphysical beliefs or practices. Their only escape was to leave the body, so out-of-body experiences are the norm with them today.
These individuals do not want much contact with others. They were afraid to incarnate in their present body, and show this fear by being unwilling to commit their consciousness completely into their physical body.
Leaving their physical body often throughout the day is the most common method that ethereal types use to deal with problems. They have weak boundaries and spend as much time as possible on the spiritual realms. Since all time is simultaneous on other planes, these people find it difficult to relate to linear time.
The result of these inclinations is both withdrawal and aggression. They become aggressive and angry when forced to function on the earth plane. Their psychic attack on you is rarely premeditated, but nonetheless you must protect yourself from these individuals.
The Insecure Type
The main issue with insecure types is nurturance. These souls have been through many incarnations during which there simply was not enough food or love to go around. They usually were abandoned at some time in their present life, and fear it will happen again.
The insecure type feels that everyone around them is draining their energy; their response is to suck the energy from others to compensate. They may engage you in long, boring conversations and speak very softly. Their voice is so soft and low that you have to strain to hear them. These are compulsive people who are classically overweight and susceptible to addictions of all kinds.
These souls continually create life experience proving that they are not worthy of attention, and their energy needs and nurturing requirements will never be satisfied. To solve this deficiency, they must persist in draining the energy from others, creating a vicious cycle.
An insecure type always comes across as helpless. They insist you do things for them, and expect you to take care of their every need. Give-and-take circumstances are unknown to them. All they can do is take.
Never stand directly in front of this person. Do not make eye contact with him or her, if possible. Encourage them with words, but do not offer to do things for them. Remember these individuals live in constant fear of rejection and abandonment. Do not let your pity for them be a basis for you being their next victim.
The Passive-Aggressive Type
Invasion and being controlled is the chief concern of the passive-aggressive type. During several past incarnations, they experienced being controlled and trapped in situations, and prevented from being able to express themselves in ways they wanted to. They may have been slaves, prisoners, or been victimized by religion or governments.
These souls absolutely desire freedom, but their fear prevents them from claiming it. They are angry and resentful for not feeling free, and lack a solution to this problem. Their response to the world is withdrawal, but with a subconscious wish to obtain permission from other people to come back into the world.
Passive-aggressive types lack autonomy. They constantly strive to involve other people in their lives. This individual makes demands and resists input at the same time. They live in the now, and never plan or think about the future. Self-expression is unknown to them. It is common to observe others interfering with their development, completing their sentences, and taking them for granted.
This type of individual creates an internal world of unclear, undifferentiated fantasies and ideas, with fear at the core of this world. They imprison themselves and project loneliness, desperation, and resentment toward everyone they contact. It is impossible for them to express anger.
Whey you engage this type in a conversation, they will request your advice. Unfortunately, all of your suggestions are wrong and you are of no help to them. These people ask but reject whatever is offered to them. Their classic response to your advice is, "yes,but.."
The Robot Type
The main issue of robotic types is authenticity. They are denying their true self. During previous lifetimes, they had to keep up the appearance of being perfect in order to survive. They were most likely in charge of running things, as they probably are now.
Their outer world is perfect, the inner world is denied, and there is no core essence. They constantly fear that something is missing and life is progressing without them.
To deal with this reality, robot types try to become even more perfect. They have high-paying jobs, a good reputation, a perfect spouse and family, and look in perfect health.
The more inauthentic they act, the more meaningless the world appears. Others envy their lifestyle. People come to them with their problems. The robot types never attain satisfaction from life, and come across as a blank. They function as if on automatic pilot and are often removed from your conversation.
Robot types never complain about the world. They are perfect and everything is beautiful. Appropriateness and being "politically correct" are more important that being real.
These five types of psychic parasites need to be recognized and treated accordingly, or a psychic attack upon you is inevitable.
Dr. Bruce Goldberg: I highly recommend my Spiritual Growth experience CD album and my book Protected By the Light to fully benefit from this topic.

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I think there was something about this on Oprah.com HAHAH!! In that case the Energy Vampire was someone who complains all the time and tries to get others involved in the drama of their lives.
Yeah hmm hmm, I know alot of people who could be considered, vampires in that way.
off of
My ex-friend Lance was an example of this, I met this drag queen entertainer at
The Connection nightclub -(whom you could see by just walking into the stage area of the bar
any fri, sat or sun night at 10:30 pm ya kno ya wanna go)- who feeds like literally feeds:::
attention from the kids and guests at the bar, she has like quadruple D breast implants
and from what i hear) a 9 inch c*ck -plenty of luv to go around
seeing her makes me thankful for not yet destroying my body.
Ill never do that for the approval of others.
Geez, with a 9 inch long penis, no wonder her name is Lance.
Monster-sized-penises jokes aside, when I think of nightclubs, I think of lots of happy people having fun, if also energetic. And when you say "You know you wanna be there", Damn skippy I do! It sounds like an awesome good time! Never been to a nightclub before and can't say it's typically my favorite scene but it sounds fun to go to with friends.
I have definitely run into energy vampires, especially online. I've had a handful of friends in Warcraft alone that, despite maybe being nice people, will drag your ear off your head with their tales of constant real-life heartbreak and sorrow and 'dis themselves constantly. I even know one guy that's generally a decent fellow, but fits that description to a tea and has even uttered the sentence:

"I do feed and thrive on drama."
Actually Lance is my ex boyfriend the drag queen
im talking about with the huge wanker is named
"the body beautiful Mocha Montrese"
Sorry 'bout the misread there.
Mocha Montrese, hmmm, I definitely have some vivid mental images now. Or is it just that damned Ricky Martin song I think of everytime I hear "mocha"?
Ohhhhh... wait!
Is THIS it? *evil grin*
Doesn't strike me immediately as someone who'd drain people's spirits, but I can see the possibility.
though because I know she is lookin at herself in the mirror
and kickin herself for getting those outrageous implants,
I've heard she went to Mexico for her cosmetic work. Bad place to go.
Denise why dont you come up here to Louisville sometime
. Just an idea. 
and go out to the club with me, I could buy you a drink or two if
thats your thing, just have a good time, if you want to try to dance there is
a huge floor for it just in the other room from that stage in the vid,
where plenty of idiots attempt to dance every weekend.
I could bring John if you go
I would absolutely love that, Jordan!
I'm not much a drinker but I can do a daquiri once in a blue moon.
I don't know when I'll be up there again but hopefully I'll be able to make it up there soon!
Oooo, Mexico for surgery. Talk about risky! Good that it worked out for the better over all but, don't you want to drink water while recovering from major surgery without Montezuma's Revenge?
Ouch, cosmetic work in Mexico sounds extremely dangerous. When I was watching the video, I was thinking, "She looks like she got those silicone injections." I saw a show about trans who would have silicone injected directly beneath their skin to look more feminine by plumping up certain areas. Most of them got very sick because of it.
I doubt she's regretting it, though. The ones on the show were very into the injections, even though they knew it was making people sick. Mokha seems to be getting exactly what she wanted out of her surgery (and maybe injections), so if she could go back and make the choice again, I'm sure she would make the same choice.
Yeah, she is kind of a sweet person, but I know her a little
and I know people that really know her, and she is said to be a
little miserable, and rotten. But she does cook up the drag show there.
Yeah, being miserable and rotten at least part of the time goes along with being an energy vampire. It's one of the ways they try to "suck you in."
Hey, where's my invitation for drinks and dancing?
You can come to, but be warned you will see young guys
running around in underwear!
She even knows that she is difficult to deal with. I am exhausted all the time. I usually go to bed late so that she is asleep and unassuming of my presence.
I started wearing earplugs because she would talk in her sleep constantly.. just a sound whenever I would fall asleep..
She doesn't like hanging around with my friends b/c I fly around like a butterfly sharing big hugs,while we pump each other up for whatever party. She usually makes us leave early.
Funny though. As soon as I am at my lowest, she suggests I take an extended trip home to family. She suggested I visit from Sept to Dec!!! I told her as long as she can pay all the bills on her own, we will discuss it.
I visit family and friends, get healing, get sleep, eat right -- almost feel like me. Then I have to return.
I can't wait until I can build my house in the woods. I can go to healing touch and chakra courses to get certified.
Then I will be able to put a protective field against these beings.
I am glad that I have Jay and Becca as friends they have the best energy. I almost feel like I'm being levitated when I am around them.
Hopefully will see you by October.
Beedge
Everyone is a freak in their own way.
Thanks for the compliments, Beedge! We look forward to seeing you!
I moved away since LouKy came out of the dark ages.
I would like to go out & have some drinks & dancing @ an actual established club.
I have lived near and partied in New Orleans for almost 20 years.
That doesn't include Mardi Gras season.
If I haven't seen it, it must be too obscene.
Contact me when I come to visit -- we'll all cause some positive energy.
Beedge
Freak/Talent - What's the difference?
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